Domestic Abuse

Domestic Abuse Commissioner Full Report on Babies, Children & Young People Experience of Domestic Abuse 

Domestic Abuse 7 min briefing 

VAWG Children & Young People Pathway 2024.pptx 

Risk and Impact of Domestic Violence

Domestic Abuse (DA) undermines a child's basic need for safety and security. It can have a serious effect on their behaviour, brain development, education outcomes and overall wellbeing. DA is a serious risk factor for all children, and it is a factor in adolescent relationships as well. The number of cases subject to a  CSPR  where DA is a factor is increasing year on year.

Understanding the impacts of domestic abuse

Experiencing domestic abuse is defined in legislation as harmful and abusive to children. Living with domestic abuse can profoundly disrupt a child’s development, affecting their environment, undermining their stability, interrupting their attachment to caregivers, and negatively impacting their physical, mental and emotional health.

The impact on the child are the result of the perpetrator’s decision to use abusive behaviours, and the tactics and impact of domestic abuse can interrupt the non-abusing parent/carer’s ability to provide care. As a result, the protection and empowerment of the non-abusing parent and recognition of the perpetrator's pattern of coercive control are fundamental to the protection of the children.

Because domestic abuse is driven by power and control, any changes (including professional involvement) may escalate the abuse and increase the risk faced by the non-abusing parent and child/ren. It is important, when intervening to protect a child, to consider how to best to undertake this safely in partnership with the non-abusing parent.

In cases involving domestic abuse it is essential that a DASH risk assessment  for the non-abusing parent is undertaken alongside risk assessment frameworks for children, such as the Barnardo’s Domestic Abuse Risk Identification Matrix .

Parents and professionals can minimise the impact of domestic abuse on children, especially when the children are young. In fact, research shows that younger children are likely to be exposed to more domestic abuse than older children, and they are less able to process it.

Domestic abuse usually impacts every aspect of a child’s life, although it will vary according to the child’s resilience, the dynamics of their particular circumstances, and the interventions they’re enabled to access to process and recover from the abuse.

Intervention

The three central imperatives of any intervention for children living with domestic abuse are:

• To protect the child/ren, including unborn child/ren;
• To empower the non-abusive parent to protect themselves and their child/ren;
• To hold the abusive parent/partner accountable for their abuse and provide them with opportunities to change.

Assessment and Safety Planning

Where professionals are concerned about the care a child is receiving or about their parent/s, the presence of domestic abuse should be considered.

Professionals should make contact with the presumed non-abusive parent first and in a way which prioritises their safety, unless there are immediate risks of harm to the child/ren. Giving or sending written materials to a non-abusive parent or children may jeopardise their safety.

The parent experiencing the abuse will usually, but not always, be well placed to predict the risks they face and the likelihood of further abuse. Practitioners should nevertheless be aware that abused parties can underestimate the risk of harm to themselves and their children from perpetrators of domestic abuse.

Support for Victims of Domestic Abuse in Haringey

Hearthstone provides emotional and practical support for anyone experiencing domestic abuse in Haringey, including legal advice, housing advice, access to refuge accommodation, access to counselling and safety planning.

Read more about Hearthstone .